Somatic Therapy Frequently Asked Questions


Why the body?

The body is the ultimate witness to love”. This quote by writer Ocean Vuong sums up for me why it is vital that the body is part of any sustained change in our physical, emotional, mental states. Our body is the vehicle of all our lived experiences- the ones we didn’t have the words for yet when we were too young; the place that holds the raw truth of our fears and pains regardless of what we might say or do on the outside; and yet also the landscape of our joys and pleasures. The body remembers how it has been loved, and how it was not.

As such, when we include the body in sessions and there is a lived experience of safety, welcome and allowance, the body too remembers this, and there can often be sustained shifts which ripple out through multiple areas of our lives.


What is the structure of a session?

First sessions are an opportunity for us to meet, human to human, nervous system to nervous system. In that spirit, my primary intention for the first session is for us to see if there is resonance, to begin building a sense of safety within our shared container and to be with whatever arises. During the first session what we might typically cover includes:

  • key points from your intake form to build context and set an intention

  • psychoeducation to understand your nervous system better

  • an opportunity and safe space to express your truth and emotion

  • an experience of connecting in with your body either through guided prompts or supportive touch

Generally speaking, each session is different and a co-creation between you and me, and I hold a space of deep trust that whatever feels ready to emerge in our session is exactly what we work with. As such, there is no need to always prepare a topic to speak about. In general, we start and end a session with some time to speak together, and often you will leave with a self-care practice to support you in between sessions. Some components a session could include are:

  • Seated somatic sensing and inner child healing

  • Lying on the massage table for more direct touch support

  • Movement on the mat or floor if exploring TRE or other movement interventions


What ways might my body respond during and after a session?

Throughout our session, all your honest emotions and reflections are welcome - there is no need to hold back. During the session, especially if we were to explore supported touch on the table, a whole variety of responses can show up, depending on how you are feeling that day, your relationship with receiving touch and how tired your body is. Some common responses are:

  • Spontaneous tremoring and jerking of the body

  • Gurgling of the belly

  • Heightened discomfort in areas of chronic tension

  • Coughing or tickling at the throat

  • Sense of spaciousness

  • Emotional release

  • Deepening of the breath

  • Falling asleep

Even after a session concludes, you might feel a little more sensitive than usual and sometimes might even feel a little worse - this can be because what we had previously not been aware of in our feelings or body, is now more on the surface where we can notice it. You might like to give yourself more space after a session, try and get an earlier rest that day or get some support with our self-care resources.


How often and long should sessions be continued for?

Just like how our body has taken many years to develop its various adaptive habits, it also takes time to unlearn those habits. As such, while a one-off session can serve as a helpful reset for a sudden bout of stress, if there are deeper-seated issues that need addressing, more than one session is typically needed. This also ensures that what gets moved through in a session is not too much for the body to handle at one go. I normally suggest at least a series of 5 sessions after the first session, so there is time for cumulative and sustained change to occur.

From anecdotal experience, I find it helpful for sessions to be spaced out a week or at most 2 weeks apart. This allows time for integration of the session and yet not too long that the body’s usual adaptive patterns creep in.


How do I know if somatic therapy is for me?

This is a question I am asked often, and my honest answer is until we have the opportunity to meet each other in session, I don’t know if somatic therapy would be a good fit for where you are on your journey right now.

What I can share are the reasons why my past and current clients sought me out:

  • They feel they have reached a plateau with their talk therapy journey - they have the mental perspective to see what is wrong but are stuck at changing the behaviour and/or their mind is feeling clearer but their body symptoms have not changed

  • Medically they have taken all the different tests and are supposed to be “ok” but are not feeling that way at all

  • They identify as being very “heady” people who are very analytical and feel very disconnected with their body

  • They are aware that they have traumatic experiences (but might not remember them) from when they were in the womb, post-natal, or while still very young, i.e. pre-verbal.

  • They are following a hunch that there is something more underneath what is showing up emotionally or physically, but are not sure what

What is most important in all therapeutic care, and what matters most in enabling shifts is a sense of mutual resonance between client and therapist. And so if you are feeling drawn to how I’ve been sharing about somatic therapy, that is a good signal. We can also get on a 15min exploration call for you to get a better sense of me as well, if you are still unsure.